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Two sisters,
Terri and Kathy, founded Dot Girl™'s First Period Products. Who better than two
women, who are also daughters and mothers, to honestly address an uncomfortable
topic?
Their
motivation to create The Dot Girl™’s First Period Kit grew from their own
awkward teenage experiences. Despite the fact that their mother was a
wonderful nurturer to four daughters, she was never comfortable talking to them
about their bodies. They found that this is more often the rule than the
exception for both moms and dads. And the reality today is that parents often
find themselves in the awkward position of having avoided the subject at all
costs, to the detriment of their daughters.
Terri and
Kathy's goal for the kit is to provide parents with the tools you need to
explain the basics of menstruation to your daughters. And for the girls, they
hope that having the kit will lessen their anxiety about their first period and
instead turn it into a positive experience.
See below for Terri and
Kathy's personal first period stories.
Kathy's Story
Our family was on a motor home trip when my first period started and I had no
idea what was happening. To be honest, I thought I was dying. It took about a
day before I had the courage to tell my mother. An immediate, quick trip to the
grocery store followed and I still remember my mom hiding the bag from my
siblings and handing me a hygiene pad with minimal explanation. I vowed then
that if I ever had a daughter, she would be prepared.
Twenty-eight years later and sure enough, that day arrived. One afternoon, I
picked up my daughter from grade school and she hopped into the car and told me
they had discussed periods in class. Her reaction, "yuck" gave me the
opening I needed. On the way home, we talked about periods and the role they
fill in a woman's life. She still was saying"yuck" when we got home
but at least she understood that periods were just a normal step in becoming a
woman. That evening I put together a small bag of supplies for her to use in
case she was away from home when her first period started. I included a clean
pair of underpants, feminine hygiene products and a washcloth. I had her store
it in her gym bag so she would be prepared.
As it happened, she was home when her first period started, and in a very
matter of fact voice, informed me what was happening. She was comfortable and I
was pleased that such an anxiety-laden day for me was a simple transition for
my daughter.
Terri's Story
It was about a week after my older brother died in a traffic accident when I
started my first period. Needless to say, my mom was preoccupied by grief. She
managed to get me the pads I needed but didn't have much else to say.
Unfortunately, I was out of school when the menstruation details were presented
by the visiting health expert so I had very little understanding of what was
happening to my body.
My mom was from a generation that didn't talk about their bodies so it didn't
come easily for her. In the best of times, it would have been an awkward and
uncomfortable topic to broach. During a time of immeasurable grief, there was
simply no opportunity to have a conversation. When Kathy and I were creating
the first period kit, my mom shook her head and said, "Boy, I sure could
have used one of those." That was perhaps the greatest compliment our
mother could have paid us.
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